I have had a Celestron (forgot model) for about a decade. It was a pretty decent model, but not computerised. I had a quick look and it seems that computerized (ones that find stars, planets automatically with a small motor in the unit) are the norm now.
A reflector scope is the way to go as opposed to a refractor.
I really don’t know what you need to spend, but 10 years ago mine was about $600.
It was pretty good, I could easily see Saturn and its rings, polar caps on Mars and the moons of Jupiter etc.
Such a cool hobby, and pretty impressive when you see these things with your own eyes.
I guess it’s like buying a bike, spend some money, do some research and it should be fine.
I used to be real into space as a kid. Still am, but much less so. Gave up on telescopes many years ago, and all my parents could afford was something that could look at the moon a bit better.
I just brought one for my GF’s birthday for similar reasons,- it went down a treat. We went to the observatory at Lake Tepako in NZ - some of the best dark skies in the world.
I’ve tried with both, binoculars give a good overview of the moon and shows the sea etc in a bit of detail, but the telescope, with just the standard lens shows a lot of detail of crater edges - especially in the early phases when the shadows are quite long. It can be quite blinding by the time it gets to 3/4 full.
No worries - sounds like we might have the same GF!